"Do whatever it takes to be happy, for it is hard to know what life will bring you." watching a movie with ted dansen and mary steenburgen. he cheated on her, the felt "dead" and yet the are communicating finally about what went wrong and working to make it right. why cant tam be as strong as she made me think she was and work out something that was as right as rain on a sunday morning. grow up tam and realize it isn't the issues, it is how you react to them and communicate about them.