I like this quote...

"Do whatever it takes to be happy, for it is hard to know what life will bring you." "It is not necessary to understand things in order to argue about them." - Pierre Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais, French author and dramatist (1732-1799). While I don't understand why Tam gave up, rather than be strong and fight for our relationship, I will always argue that we should never give up on what we had.